12 week 1:1 intensive

Pleaser To Leader

Break free from the nice guy trap, build unshakeable authentic confidence and attract women who appreciate you for who you are.

Apply for your spot here

You're a busy man, so I'll get to the point.

This page will take you 3 minutes to read.

And I invite you to do so only if...

  • You have achieved success in your career but that success hasn't carried over into your relationships.
  • You're a chronic people-pleaser or "Mr. nice guy" who struggles to set boundaries or say no to people.
  • You have a brutal inner critic and often feel inadequate, unworthy or undeserving.
  • You feel anxious, shy, nervous or inauthentic around people so you often avoid interactions altogether.
  • You put others on a pedestal (your wife, your boss, even strangers) and feel like a failure by comparison.
  • You are often paralyzed by your hunger for approval and validation from other people.

If this sounds like you, imagine something with me...

Imagine your life as a mansion party. 

But you’re not the host—you’re the butler.

You're the nice, agreeable figure at the edges of every room, quietly serving everyone else. 

You laugh at others’ jokes, nod in agreement, and tread lightly for a scrap of approval.

Nobody really notices you.

You're just… there. 

You’re not even a guest at your own party.

And what about the women? 

They see you—but only as a ‘nice guy,’ safe and harmless. Never the man they crave or respect.

And the worst thing ... as you rush around meeting others' needs, your own needs fade until you’re left with a life that isn't even yours.

So, pardon my bluntness … if you're exhausted from bending over backwards to please everyone but yourself, then it's time to stop being the butler at your own fucking party.

And that's exactly what Pleaser To Leader will help you do.

So while we’re still in imagination mode, picture this…

Imagine handling social situations with ease, feeling fully present and engaged—as if you truly belong, without needing to prove yourself.

Imagine catching the attention and admiration of women, not as the “nice guy” who fades into the background, but as the kind of man who naturally commands their respect and desire.

Imagine saying “no” with confidence, standing up for what you want, and living authentically—free from the constant pull to meet everyone else’s expectations.

Imagine waking up each day with an unshakable respect for yourself, a quiet confidence and inner peace that isn’t tied to anyone’s approval but your own.

You can break free from the cycle of people-pleasing.

You can stop being the “nice guy” nobody respects.

You can take back control, reignite that fire within, and become the true leader of your life.

And here’s how we’ll make it happen… step by step, you’ll build genuine confidence, master assertiveness, and finally start living life on your terms.

The 4A Framework

A 4-step transformational journey delivered through weekly private sessions to shape you into the confident, respected leader in your work and relationships.
1

Awareness

Uncover the hidden beliefs and behaviors that have kept you stuck, so you can finally break free from the 'nice guy' trap and start building genuine self-respect.

2

Acceptance

Let go of the shame and self-doubt holding you back. Build a stronger relationship with yourself and start developing true confidence from within.

3

Authenticity

Forge a powerful core identity based on who you truly are—not what others expect. Discover your core values, set boundaries, and become a grounded, magnetic man people admire.

4

Action

Step into your life with boldness, taking courageous actions in your relationships. Learn how to stand firm, communicate clearly, and show up unapologetically in every aspect of life.

Maybe you're wondering if it'll work for you.

What if you've been a people-pleaser all your life?

Don't you need years of therapy?

I can't speak to your personal situation, but I can show you the results other men have gotten with the program.

All of the men in the section below were chronic people pleasers, nice guys and socially anxious introverts before working with me.

And afterwards?

Take a look...

VIDEO #1: Tilesh showed the world his true self

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VIDEO #2: Luis conquered 10 years of social anxiety

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VIDEO #3: Kin became a confident leader with women

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I wouldn't sell a program I didn't believe in.

It is the best coaching program on the internet to help men overcome ANXIETY and people pleasing to become effortlessly confident in their relationships.

You will be personally coached through it by me, a psychotherapeutically trained men's confidence coach with over 4 years of experience coaching 150+ men in retreats and online.

But I'm not just someone who's read a bunch of books and taken a course or two.

You know that Butler house party metaphor from earlier?

I wrote that because that was exactly what my life felt like at one point. 

I was a chronic people-pleaser with no self-esteem. And it was hell. 

So brother, let me tell you three words. 

I understand you.

So with that in mind, let me extend an invitation.

Stop being a pleaser and start being UNAPOLOGETICALLY AND AUTHENTICALLY YOU WITH EVERYONE YOU MEET.

Click the button at the bottom, fill out the application form and book a free 15-minute call with me to discuss your situation in more detail.

We'll have a relaxed conversation about your unique circumstances and if the program is right for you (it's not for everyone).

If not, no harm done.

If we are, then we'll get the ball rolling.

But one more thing, please don't apply if you aren't ready to commit.

This is reserved only for men who are in a position to invest in themselves.

I only have the capacity to take on 4 new clients a month so my space is limited.

With that in mind, I'll see you on the call.

Apply for your spot here
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