Private Coaching
Tired of being the invisible Nice Guy?
It’s time to wake up and become the confident, assertive man women truly respect and desire.
Through deep transformational coaching, I help single analytical men break free from painful relationship patterns and finally create the healthy loving relationships they’ve been searching for.
Book your free 30-minute call to uncover what’s holding you back in your relationships and how you can fix it.
"Over the course of 12 weeks Oliver's support helped me get back out there on the dating scene and get back to becoming the best possible version of myself."
- Dan, Senior Lecturer, UK
Does this sound like you?
- You freeze up around women, struggling to flirt of express your interest.
- You overthink and second-guess yourself, so you rarely assert yourself or take action.
- You either fall into toxic relationships full of chaos and drama, leaving you exhausted and doubting yourself....
- OR you avoid them altogether.
- You feel respected at work, but invisible with women.
- You’re the “nice guy” women say they like… right before they choose someone else.
- You have your life together, but still come home to an empty apartment.
On the outside, you’re the “nice guy” who seems to have it all together.
On the inside, you just want an amazing woman you can just relax and be yourself around.
I've been there and I know what it's like.
How I killed my "inner nice guy" and built confidence with women...
Years ago, I had no confidence with women.
I was terrified of flirting, avoided eye contact, and nodded along to everything a woman said.
I was the “nicest guy ever”… but it wasn’t working.
The women I liked never chose me.
I got stuck in the friendzone, while they chased the bad boys they claimed to hate.
It was confusing and painful.
I remember thinking: “What the fck is wrong with me?”
And when women did choose me, the relationships turned toxic and unhealthy.
Eventually, my girlfriend (who had no respect for me) left me for another man. I was devastated.
That’s when I realised: something had to change.
I discovered I had been hiding behind a mask ... pretending to be who I thought women wanted, because I was scared to show my true self.
It was time to take that mask off and face my fear.
So I started fixing my relationship with myself.
I started expressing my desires openly, and took bolder, more courageous action.
It was scary, but over time I began showing up as my real self more and more.
And that's when the right women started showing up in my life.
I went from feeling hopeless with women to receiving the kinds of texts you see here.
And now, I help men make that same transformation so they can stop being overlooked and finally create the love life they’ve been searching for.
This is the kind of effect you have on women when you stop being Mr. Nice Guy
It's time to go deeper than shallow "dating advice" .. and you know it.
If you’ve spent hours watching dating advice on YouTube but nothing changes, it’s not because you’re broken.
It’s because you’ve been treating the symptoms instead of the root.
I’m not your typical dating coach. I’m a specialist in deep transformational work with men.
With over 100 clients and a 30,000-subscriber YouTube channel, I’ve helped men go beyond quick fixes to resolve the fears, wounds, and people-pleasing patterns that have kept them stuck for decades.
Through my Pleaser to Leader Coaching Framework, you’ll:
- Stop feeling needy around women and start speaking your truth without apology or fear.
- End the spiral of hyper analysis/overthinking and naturally attract women who are genuinely drawn to you.
- Flirt, play, and express your desire with confidence so you create attraction instead of slipping into the friendzone.
- Feel like the man in the dynamic so you naturally inspire her feminine, loving side.
- Have a clear, personalised roadmap for meeting, dating, and keeping the right woman without games or guesswork.
This isn’t therapy. And it isn’t another pile of surface tips from a YouTube guru.
It’s deep, high-impact coaching that gets to the root of your fear, rewires the patterns holding you back, and creates lasting change in your love life so you can finally experience the connection, and intimacy you’ve been searching for.
The next step...
It starts with a free 30-minute call.
We’ll look at your patterns, your goals, and what’s holding you back and map out a plan to move you from people-pleaser to confident leader.
There's no pressure.
Just an honest conversation.
You'll have space to reflect and ask questions.
And you'll leave with clarity and a real plan forward, whether we work together or not.
Click the button below to book that call.
Client Stories
Here’s what happens when men stop pleasing and start leading.
Kin became a confident leader with women
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Luis conquered 10 years of social anxiety
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Tilesh finally dropped the mask and became a confident man with women
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Ready to Stop Being Overlooked?
You don’t need more dating tips.
You don’t need to keep second-guessing yourself.
What you need is a proven process to break free from people-pleasing, build real confidence, and finally attract the kind of woman who respects, desires, and commits to you.
That’s exactly what this coaching is about.
Book your free 30-minute call now and take the first step toward the love life you’ve been searching for.
Faq
Nope. If you resonate with my content, I work with your regardless of gender and sexual orientation. I specialise in working with men but I can adapt my methods to suit you.
The price for the single clarity session is £250 but the cost of ongoing work together depends on a range of factors. But it will be in the four figure range so be prepared for that before booking a free call with me.
Therapy tends to focus on long term, past-focused work that's directed by you. A therapist is unlikely to make recommendations or direct the interaction, often allowing you to go through your own process. This can be very valuable. However, I am not a therapist and I do not focus heavily on the past. I am a guide here to focus on the present and the future to create lasting and meaningful change. That being said, the responsibility for change whether it's coaching or therapy ... is squarely on your shoulders.
I have some clients who see me once every fortnight but the majority of my clients see me on a weekly basis. I recommend, at a minimum, seeing me every 2 weeks to maintain momentum and to stay engaged in your personal growth journey.
My sessions are 60 minutes. However, there are certain sessions where we go much deeper than usual. In these cases I allow for 90 minutes.
I trained as a person-centred (humanistic) counsellor for three years. I first kicked off my career helping people as a personal trainer when I was 18. My niche was always psychology, mindset and behaviour change. I have self-taught in shadow work, therapy, self-development and other topics since then. In terms of formal trainining (with letters next to my name) I do not formally have any. My expertise comes from lived experienced applying my teaching principles to my own life and those of my clients.
I have been working as a men's self-development coach for around 4 years at this point. Prior to that I was a personal trainer for over 7 years. I think in total I've worked with over 300 people privately. It's mad.