Alright mate
If you’ve ever felt walked over, resentful, or like no one really sees the “good guy” effort you put in… this one’s for you.
Because here’s the truth:
Being nice isn’t kind. It’s survival.
For years, I thought being agreeable, polite, and low-maintenance was what made me a “good man.”
But underneath that mask, I was suppressing my anger, hiding my needs, and avoiding conflict at all costs.
And it ruined me:
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It wrecked my relationships.
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It killed my confidence.
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It left me quietly resenting everyone around me.
Eventually, I learned that this wasn’t kindness. It was manipulation.
Not in a malicious way.
But in a self-protective, approval-seeking way.
I wasn’t being real. I was trying to avoid rejection.
And the thing is… this is exactly what I see in almost every man I coach.
The mask of the nice guy runs deep.
If you never remove it, it will cost you your power, your purpose, and your peace.
In this week’s video, I shared the 4 hard truths that every nice guy needs to hear, including:
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Why repressed anger is quietly destroying you
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Why people-pleasing is actually manipulation
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How the father wound fuels the “good boy” performance
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And why radical honesty is the real path to confidence
You don’t have to keep proving your worth.
You just have to stop hiding the truth.
Stay courageous,
Oliver