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THE LUCAS LETTER

Regular insights to help you heal, stop pleasing others and start fearlessly living on your own terms in work, life and relationships.

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Oliver Cowlishaw

July 30, 2025

Masculinity, Self-Development

When you realise this .. dating becomes easy

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Oliver Cowlishaw

July 5, 2025

Masculinity, Self-Development

“Nice guys” aren’t nice. They’re scared

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Oliver Cowlishaw

June 22, 2025

Masculinity, Self-Development

Why “nice guys” attract chaotic women

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Oliver Cowlishaw

June 10, 2025

Masculinity, Self-Development

Dark masculine shadow work: the key to finally killing the nice guy

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Oliver Cowlishaw

June 2, 2025

Masculinity, Self-Development

You feel invisible to women for one reason

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Oliver Cowlishaw

May 21, 2025

Masculinity, Self-Development

I lost 10kg by reparenting my inner child

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Oliver Cowlishaw

May 15, 2025

Masculinity, Self-Development

I gave up Warhammer for women (big mistake)

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Oliver Cowlishaw

May 3, 2025

Masculinity, Self-Development

4 truths that kill your inner nice guy

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Oliver Cowlishaw

May 2, 2025

Masculinity, Self-Development

The hidden rage in every “nice guy”

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Oliver Cowlishaw

April 27, 2025

Masculinity, Self-Development

Why “nice guys” get friend-zoned

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Oliver Cowlishaw

April 25, 2025

Masculinity, Self-Development

You are enough

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Oliver Cowlishaw

April 23, 2025

Masculinity, Self-Development

How to find your voice again (after people pleasing)

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