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THE LUCAS LETTER

Regular insights to help you heal, stop pleasing others and start fearlessly living on your own terms in work, life and relationships.

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Oliver Cowlishaw

December 9, 2025

Masculinity, Self-Development

Heal the boy. Awaken the man.

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Oliver Cowlishaw

December 3, 2025

Masculinity, Self-Development

How this “nice guy” escaped the friendzone

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Oliver Cowlishaw

November 24, 2025

Masculinity, Self-Development

Become the father you never had

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Oliver Cowlishaw

November 17, 2025

Masculinity, Self-Development

Better or bitter?

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Oliver Cowlishaw

November 13, 2025

Masculinity, Self-Development

I dodged a bullet last night

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Oliver Cowlishaw

November 7, 2025

Masculinity, Self-Development

Why nobody respects a harmless man

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Oliver Cowlishaw

October 28, 2025

Masculinity, Self-Development

How much disrespect do you tolerate?

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Oliver Cowlishaw

October 19, 2025

Masculinity, Self-Development

Dating apps are awful

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Oliver Cowlishaw

October 13, 2025

Masculinity, Self-Development

You aren’t unattractive .. you’re just numb

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Oliver Cowlishaw

October 6, 2025

Masculinity, Self-Development

Stop putting her on a pedestal

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Oliver Cowlishaw

September 25, 2025

Masculinity, Self-Development

6 shifts to attract a loyal, feminine woman

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Oliver Cowlishaw

September 11, 2025

Masculinity, Self-Development

The easiest way to approach a woman

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