Alright, mate.
A while ago I stopped using dating apps because...
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Men are at a disadvantage from the get go.
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My ideal dream woman isn't spending her time swiping on dating apps.
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Swiping from home is NOT helping me become a better man with an enjoyable and fulfilling life.
So instead I made a list of environments (I genuinely would enjoy being in) where I would be more likely to find an amazing woman.
It's been in my Google keep notes for ages and I wanted to share it with you guys:
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Dance classes (salsa, bachata etc)
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Yoga studios
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Boxing, martial arts or crossfit gyms
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Art/music/language classes.
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Coffee shops & co-working
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Festivals & live music
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Travel hotspots/landmarks
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Breathwork/tantra/meditation events
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High-end cocktail bars (I've since stopped drinking though)
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Dog parks (My dream woman either has a dog or loves dogs)
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Self-development events
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Public speaking meetups
The key here is to make a list of all of the places you would enjoy being in (not just for women) .. because that's where you'll find your ideal woman.
Because when you get out there, become a social creature and spend more time around people who share similar values … you start enjoying life more.
And that’s when you become your most confident, magnetic and attractive version.
You know … the kind of man your ideal woman is looking for right now.
So I invite you to commit to deleting dating apps FOREVER and getting in those environments more.
It will change your life.
But I’m curious, mate.
What's your experience with dating apps?
And which environments from the list above appeal to you the most?
Feel free to reply and let me know. I read every email (although it might take me a while to reply).
Stay courageous,
Oliver
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