Alright, mate.
Do you ever feel like you’re running in circles (learning, thinking, analyzing) but never moving?
Every week, I meet men living like this.
They’re not lazy, clueless or broken.
They’re just stuck in a loop of intellectualizing, thinking and analyzing … alone.
This was me for years.
Does this sound familiar?
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You watch videos, read books, and listen to podcasts about growth.
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You think deeply about yourself and your life.
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You know what you “should” do but you rarely do it.
Here’s the hard truth:
All the information in the world is useless if you never act on it.
But there’s something that makes this cycle even harder to break:
Trying to do it all by yourself.
Because being alone lets you avoid the truth that might sting, but will also set you free.
When you’re isolated, it’s easy to get trapped in your head:
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Overthinking every decision.
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Consuming more content, hoping the next video will finally spark action.
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Convincing yourself you’re “working on it” while nothing really changes.
I see it all the time.
Men who want to grow, but don’t have anyone to challenge or support them.
Men who drift, year after year, waiting for the perfect moment to act.
Here’s what most men never hear (and what I learned too late):
White knuckling it as a lone wolf might help you survive.
But you can’t become your best version alone.
The men who suffer the most in this society are isolated men.
You need real support, real accountability, real brotherhood … to step into the man you could be.
Reflection without action leads to stagnation and repetition.
Action, especially with others, leads to real growth.
That’s why I’m opening a small men’s group starting Tuesday.
It’s for men who are done circling the same patterns alone and are ready to move from endless thinking into real self-leadership.
You’ll get support and challenge from encouraging and like-minded men.
You’ll build confidence through action and momentum.
You’ll finally have a brotherhood that holds you to your word, and helps you to your feet when you slip up.
If you’re tired of wasting time and ready for something real, click here to learn more: https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/community
If you’re not ready to join, hit reply and tell me:
What’s one thing that’s keeping you stuck right now?
Stay courageous,
Oliver