Alright, mate.
Let me ask you a question.
Have you ever looked around and realised…
This isn’t the life I want.
I have.
Earlier this year, I was a part of a men’s group that started out amazing.
Real connection, support, brotherhood.
But slowly it turned into something else.
As the weeks went on, the focus shifted.
It started to feel more like a hustle cult than a supportive brotherhood.
If you didn’t act a certain way.
If you challenged the leader…
You paid a price for it.
Deep down I knew it wasn’t right for me.
But my “inner nice guy” was terrified to leave.
That part of me thought I’d disappoint people and that I was being unreasonable.
He was afraid that they’d think less of me.
I felt like I was a scared boy back in school.
The truth is I was scared of losing their approval.
But one day I listened to my gut instead.
I told them I was leaving.
And it happened.
Three men who I thought were my friends cut me off instantly.
I never heard from them after that.
I felt guilty.
I wanted to reach out and make nice.
But I resisted.
When the guilt cleared, I realised I was right all along.
I had been living out of alignment for months and walking away gave me back my self respect.
Now I want to shift the focus to you.
Is there an area of your life that you KNOW isn’t right for you … and you are avoiding changing it because your inner nice guy is running the show?
I know it’s scary.
But when you develop the courage to speak your mind and stick up for yourself…
You will start to walk taller.
You will feel a sense of unshakable self-respect.
And just maybe … your life will start to feel like yours again.
That’s what this weekend’s workshop is about.
It’s not just “being more confident” in some vague way.
But finding the courage to stop living for everyone else and start living on your own terms.
We start Sunday.
Oliver