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Better or bitter?

Nov 17, 2025

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2 min read

Better or bitter?

.. the choice is yours

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

I dodged a bullet last night

Nov 13, 2025

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3 min read

I dodged a bullet last night

... she waved a huge red flag

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

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Why nobody respects a harmless man

Nov 7, 2025

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3 min read

Why nobody respects a harmless man

.. the truth all men need to hear

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

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How much disrespect do you tolerate?

Oct 28, 2025

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4 min read

How much disrespect do you tolerate?

... it's time to start teaching people how to respect you

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

Dating apps are awful

Oct 19, 2025

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2 min read

Dating apps are awful

... do this instead

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

You aren't unattractive .. you're just numb

Oct 13, 2025

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3 min read

You aren't unattractive .. you're just numb

... the silent turn off that women won't tell you

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

Stop putting her on a pedestal

Oct 6, 2025

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3 min read

Stop putting her on a pedestal

... the one thing every man must realise eventually

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

6 shifts to attract a loyal, feminine woman

Sep 25, 2025

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4 min read

6 shifts to attract a loyal, feminine woman

... start doing this immediately

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

The easiest way to approach a woman

Sep 11, 2025

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3 min read

The easiest way to approach a woman

... the skill every man needs

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Masculinity

Who's life are you really living?

Aug 14, 2025

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3 min read

Who's life are you really living?

... the moment a man realises it's time to change

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas
The day my girlfriend left me for “the guy I shouldn’t worry about”

Aug 13, 2025

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5 min read

The day my girlfriend left me for “the guy I shouldn’t worry about”

... my nice guy had to die

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

How to stop freezing up around women

Aug 10, 2025

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4 min read

How to stop freezing up around women

this is the only way

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas
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The Lucas Letter

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