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She cheated. I told her the truth.

Dec 16, 2025

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4 min read

She cheated. I told her the truth.

don't be a YES MAN

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Masculinity

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My conversation with Dr. Robert Glover

Dec 13, 2025

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3 min read

My conversation with Dr. Robert Glover

a massive thankyou to YOU

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Psychology

Heal the boy. Awaken the man.

Dec 9, 2025

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4 min read

Heal the boy. Awaken the man.

the most important thing you will ever do

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

How this "nice guy" escaped the friendzone

Dec 3, 2025

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5 min read

How this "nice guy" escaped the friendzone

"... 32 and had never kissed a woman"

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Self Development

Become the father you never had

Nov 24, 2025

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2 min read

Become the father you never had

... the true meaning of masculine self-love

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

Better or bitter?

Nov 17, 2025

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2 min read

Better or bitter?

.. the choice is yours

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

I dodged a bullet last night

Nov 13, 2025

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3 min read

I dodged a bullet last night

... she waved a huge red flag

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

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Why nobody respects a harmless man

Nov 7, 2025

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3 min read

Why nobody respects a harmless man

.. the truth all men need to hear

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

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How much disrespect do you tolerate?

Oct 28, 2025

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4 min read

How much disrespect do you tolerate?

... it's time to start teaching people how to respect you

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

Dating apps are awful

Oct 19, 2025

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2 min read

Dating apps are awful

... do this instead

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

You aren't unattractive .. you're just numb

Oct 13, 2025

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3 min read

You aren't unattractive .. you're just numb

... the silent turn off that women won't tell you

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

Stop putting her on a pedestal

Oct 6, 2025

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3 min read

Stop putting her on a pedestal

... the one thing every man must realise eventually

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas
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The Lucas Letter

The Lucas Letter

Regular insights to help you heal, stop pleasing others and start fearlessly living on your own terms in work, life and relationships.


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