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Your wounds are the key to a life of freedom

Mar 4, 2025

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4 min read

Your wounds are the key to a life of freedom

... stop trying to fit in and embrace your wonky mind

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

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how to get out of "nice guy hell"

Mar 1, 2025

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7 min read

how to get out of "nice guy hell"

3 demons you need to slay

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

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5 things that happen when you finally start standing up for yourself

Feb 26, 2025

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6 min read

5 things that happen when you finally start standing up for yourself

"... you deserve to be here. You deserve respect."

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas
A breakup nearly killed me ... daily writing saved me

Feb 25, 2025

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7 min read

A breakup nearly killed me ... daily writing saved me

"if writing were a person, I would owe them my life."

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

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How to build the courage to be disliked (3 ways)

Feb 22, 2025

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6 min read

How to build the courage to be disliked (3 ways)

"... give yourself permission to be yourself"

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Masculinity

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5 signs a man is too passive

Feb 20, 2025

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3 min read

5 signs a man is too passive

... stop letting life happen to you

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

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I quit video games — and had an existential crisis

Feb 15, 2025

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5 min read

I quit video games — and had an existential crisis

... don't let this happen to you

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Masculinity

Are you going through a masculine awakening?

Feb 13, 2025

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3 min read

Are you going through a masculine awakening?

... breakdowns are breakthroughs in disguise

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Psychology

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One of my heroes just got exposed

Feb 10, 2025

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3 min read

One of my heroes just got exposed

... we all have a dark side

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Masculinity

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5 clear signs a man has an unhealed father wound

Feb 8, 2025

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5 min read

5 clear signs a man has an unhealed father wound

... healing starts now

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

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Being "nice" killed my sex life

Feb 6, 2025

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4 min read

Being "nice" killed my sex life

... 3 things every man needs to hear

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas

Relationships

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I recently turned down a hot woman

Feb 4, 2025

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4 min read

I recently turned down a hot woman

... living in integrity requires sacrifice

Oliver Robert Lucas
Oliver Robert Lucas
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The Lucas Letter

The Lucas Letter

Regular insights to help you heal, stop pleasing others and start fearlessly living on your own terms in work, life and relationships.


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